What It’s Like to be a Ghost on Social Media

SPARKS SPEAKS OUT™ — I reach out and your fingers slip through mine… You can’t see me, but I need to be seen. You can’t know who I am, but I need to be known. I’m not a riddle. I’m a real person. My life is not an easy one. I can’t say it’s the hardest life I’ve...

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5 Tips for Online Dating After Divorce

SPARKS SPEAKS OUT™ — We didn’t ask for it, but here we are… When I last left the single’s scene, it was all about college parties, spilled drinks, and locking eyes with a cute guy across a crowded room. I come back, some 20 years later, and it now looks the same to me...

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3 Ways Not to Ruin Your Next First Date

A strategy that takes us back to when life was simpler. Like most singles these days, I use dating apps to meet new people. When looking through dating profiles, I find it really odd when someone says, “Let’s go have our last first date ever.” I get the sentiment...

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How to be a Working Mom and Still Keep Your Sh#t Together

Four strategies for getting in front of the chaos. I know what you’re thinking: Really? I don’t even have time to count to four, you want me to stop what I’m doing and learn something new? Yep, I get you. I am you. I’m not just the working mom, I am the working single...

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